One of the most common questions we midwives get is what is the difference between a midwife and a doula and are you able to have both? Today I will weigh in one what the biggest differences are, and why we think that having a doula at your birth is a fantastic idea.
As a father, I’ve had many moments when my wife looked at me in shock or upset, when I didn’t anticipate something that she needed. A new baby often creates many opportunities for this kind of interaction. Exhaustion, combined with the steep learning curve can make it hard for new moms to express to us what their needs are while they adjust. Combine that with the pressure she might feel to be a ‘perfect’ mom, and she might not even feel comfortable asking for help. So what’s a partner to do?
Full disclosure, I needed help getting pregnant. All three of my pregnancies came to be as the result of excellent care from my fertility clinic. But when I got pregnant the first time, my doctor (who knew I was a midwife) tried to convince me to have an obstetrician instead. I was shocked.
Whether you are exploring having a midwife, pregnant and looking for care, or already in care with us, we want to welcome you to our webpage. Hawthorne Midwives is a midwifery clinic that serves Milton and North West Mississauga, with our clinic based in Milton.
